When
you are in a relationship, you always thought that it will last forever.
But there are instances that you will fall in love again; you will find
the right love at the wrong time. And you’re torn between staying with
your first love because of the time that you spend together and for all
the promises that you said, or to follow what’s really inside your heart.
Most
of us, perhaps all of us, were wounded in some way. The wound we suffered
from our first or second love. Through this painful life experience, it
will guide us to handle a mature relationship.
In every relationship, you have the freedom to express all the
emotions, each partner experiences meaning or pleasure from the other
partner fulfilling his or her own needs. You do not expect to find
perfection in each other; instead you accept each other’s attitudes,
beliefs and actions.
You
have to explore and learn how to accept that if your relationship doesn't work, it is because you weren't right for each other and you should keep
on looking for your perfect match.
By the time we reach maturity, most of us understand that we can’t have a best relationship if we won’t experience this mysterious process of experiencing a broken heart. We must fall out of it in order to experience true love….true love that fulfills, that lasts and that changes our lives.
What is love? A very simple question, yet it
is the most difficult to answer. It is not just by explaining the real meaning
of it; sometimes the best way is to express it by your action for someone.
You can offer your love not just for your lover but also
for those people who loves you. Love your family, for they are the one who
taught you everything about the world, who taught you to be a better person,
made you feel that they’re always there for you no matter what happens and will
surely love you forever.
Love your friends, for they are the one who give you strength
to always be yourself, and above all, the one who created us with his love,
suffered for our sins and give us the life to treasure, that is our god, our
father.
So “love” doesn’t need the exact meaning, because the
definition of it is always in your heart.
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